As someone who is always revved up and ready to go, I was not okay with the sudden drought in my libido. I used to be all about ripping my boyfriend’s pants off, getting a quickie in right before the friends come over, or trying a risky hand job on the beach. I used to always be a ‘yes’-girl, but then for whatever reason, my hormones stopped acting like they were on crack, and suddenly I was the one with the lower sex drive. This is the story of how I got my libido back and the important role erotic audio played in helping me achieve this.
It wasn’t good for my relationship
I found myself squirming away from the spontaneous make-out sessions that I once loved so much, knowing that they would inevitably lead to more and I just wasn’t feeling it. Can you believe it? Me, turning down sexy time?
I missed the thrill of tearing my boyfriend’s clothes off and feeling that primal desire. We used to be so close because we were always lusting after each other. But then I just felt like I’m just faking it. All in all, being a high libido gal was a blast, but being a low libido gal? I hate it with a passion!
Reviving my libido from the dead
I started with the basics
I went on a quest to get my sleepy libido out of hibernation. I started with the classic advice of taking vitamins (which didn’t seem to help), getting my bloods done (which came back normal) and then tried things like journaling, reading spicy books, trying new stuff in bed, watching porn and listening to erotic audio. It was through the latter that I came across Best Kept Secret audios, and the rest is history.
Erotic audio is the secret weapon I had been waiting for
My libido unfortunately still hasn’t returned to its ‘raving 80s party animal’ state, but hell, it’s so much better. I feel desire again, get excited, and enjoy my boyfriend VERY MUCH. Erotic audios played a huge part in my comeback, and it’s such an underrated way to consume spicy content and awaken your primal desires.
In the next few paragraphs, I’ll talk about why erotic audios were such a helpful tool for boosting my libido, how I used them as my secret weapon to revitalize my sex life, and finally, I’ll provide some examples of erotic audios you may want to start with and where to find them
Why were erotic audios so helpful in improving my libido?
I could listen to spicy stories, without anyone knowing
-‘What are you listening to?’
-’Ah nothing special, just a podcast’, I smirk back.
I loved the thrill of listening to erotic audios with him nearby, completely unaware. The mere thought of it was hot enough to turn me on. With my headphones in, I could go about my usual business – even listening to them while eating dinner or commuting home from work. By the time I was finished with dinner or the commute, his pants were already flying off.
Erotic audios made sex better
I think that by listening to erotic audios with dirty talk and spicy scenarios long enough, you gradualy become more comfortable and open to trying similar stuff in bed. I suddenly had no problem slipping into dirty talk (I used to hate it, I’m just not the chatty type) or acting like a brat or a freaky sex goddess or whatever it was that I wanted to feel like that night. It left my man’s jaw on the floor.
Awesome entertainment for boring tasks
One of the best things about erotic audios is, I could listen to them while doing almost anything that didn’t require my full attention. While having my ‘hot girl walk’, cooking, commuting, gaming, exercise… literally anything that didn’t require my full brainpower. This meant that I didn’t have to carve out a big chunk of time in my day to indulge in smut; I could easily incorporate it into my daily routine.
As much as I love reading, I don’t always have an hour to spare. Now I can get my dose of naughty fun while grocery shopping, with Mr. Robinson whispering ‘…you naughty girl…’ in my ear. Just don’t tell the shop assistant. She already thinks I am weird as is, buying the biggest bag of spinach available, just to come back for Ben & Jerry’s an hour later.
The stories are amazing…
I am a sucker for a good story and, oh boy, BKS knows how to provide one. Somehow I am laughing, crying and still end up dripping wet by the end the audio. I am not kidding, the ‘Not just a fantasy‘ audio had me bawling my eyes out. Erotic audios offer the perfect combination of emotional intensity, love, and kinky smut, making them like my favourite books, but 5 times hotter.
Listening to audio erotica improved my imagination
Listening to erotic audios really pushed my imagination to the next level. The scenarios, positions, and dirty talk stuck in my mind. Erotic audios have a roleplay aspect where the speaker talks directly to you and there are pauses for you to imagine the responses.
Unlike porn, it doesn’t give you everything on a silver platter, but instead, it forces you to work your imagination. You have to put yourself in the listener’s shoes and visualize the scene. Kind of like books, but only a lot hotter, because it’s seems so much more real. And somehow it helped me become more creative in bed as well.
I found new things I wanted to try, making sex more exciting again
Just when you think when you know it all about yourself… bam, praise kink! Bam, spanking kink! And the list goes on and on. I found out I liked things I thought I never would.
Then, I shared the audios with my boyfriend and we tried so many new things together. Most of them were just as good in real life as they were in the audios. However, we learned that some fantasies should remain as pure fantasies and won’t be tested again (let’s just say, we’ll leave our car for driving purposes only).
The perfect duration
Most erotic audios last between 30 to 60 minutes, which is plenty of time to establish an intriguing storyline and develop the chemistry between the characters before getting down to business. In just half an hour, you can experience a wild and passionate sexual encounter that will leave you breathless. Like I mentioned, I love books, but it takes so long to get to the juicy parts. With erotic audios, you get all the heat and excitement without the wait.
Where can I find the best erotic audios?
Now that I’ve shared my experience with erotic audios and their positive impact on reviving my libido from the dead, let me help you find the best ones. You can check out an article that lists some great sources, but I’ll give you a quick summary to save you some time.
For the most professional audios, I recommend checking out creators’ Patreon pages. Many of these creators rely on Patreon as their sole source of income, so they pour their heart and talent into their work. While Patreon unfortunately isn’t for free, it’s usually reasonably priced. For instance, BKS’s Patreon offers over 350 different audios, ranging from sweet romantic stories to steamy vampire fantasies.
If you’re looking for free options, the Gone Wild Audio subreddit is the largest repository out there. While there are plenty of audios to choose from, the quality and acting skills of some creators can vary. Still, there are some gems to be found.
You can also find some audios on PornHub (search for NSFW ASMR or NSFW AUDIO) or on YouTube. YouTube has strict guidelines for adult content, so the audios you will find there will be on the tamer side. But if you are in more of a ‘boyfriend & cuddle’ mood, you are bound to find something good.
Erotic audios to start with
Because I am writing this article for Best Kept Secret, I’ll do a shameless plug of their audios. However, I truly believe that their audios are the best. They are professionally produced, with talented voice actors and amazing storylines. But enough with the compliments, let’s dive in!
From sweet & spicy…
Let’s start with a wonderfully emotional story and sweet lovemaking! Give a listen to “Repair Us“, which features a sweet apology and makeup sex with your boyfriend after his confession of you being the love of his life.
Next up is “Let Me Love You“, a wonderful story about a woman who doesn’t feel desirable anymore after time and multiple pregnancies have left their marks on her body. Your husband is having none of it, and he has planned a whole weekend together to show you what the love of his life deserves.
To rough & spicy…
If you’re curious about light bondage and spanking, try “Teased and Tied as He Games“. The audio starts with him in an intense gaming session, but your mind is wandering around far naughtier places. Being the loving and horny girlfriend that you are, you playfully tease him until he decides to give you the ‘above and beyond the normal treatment’ that you have been craving so much.
If you’re craving something rough, “Welcome to Depravity” is an intriguing story about an Incubus meeting his one and only. He is strong, incredibly charming, and dominant. He has the power to make you have all of his desires, and he will take advantage of it tonight.
And something new…
For those into seductive vampires, there’s “Gift of Life“. You’ll love this if you’re all about a good storyline: a handsome vampire saves you from a car crash, and this encounter soon turns into an emotional and spicy whirlwind.
You can also find a full list of over 350 audios on BKS website, where you’re bound to find an erotic audio that caters to your desires.
Final notes
I feel like I had to include the disclaimer here. While I personally haven’t had any issues with becoming overly reliant on erotic audios, it’s worth noting that they, like porn, can become addictive for some people. If you find yourself unable to get into the mood without listening to an audio, it may be a good idea to scale back a bit and try to explore other sources of arousal. Consume responsibly and have fun!
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