Auralism: Is ASMR Audio Porn Empowering Curvy Women? - Best Kept Secret
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Auralism: Is ASMR Audio Porn Empowering Curvy Women?

So, what the hedonism, is making women shout “Yes, Yes, Yes” to ASMR audio porn? Well aside from listening to sexy voice actors spilling out the naughtiest dirty talk since Fifty Shades. Curvy women blessed with auralism (including myself) everywhere are raving about the potent dose of femme empowerment received from thoughtfully written audio porn stories. 

In this article we’ll look at:

  • What is auralism?
  • How do you know if you have auralism?
  • Why do so many curvy women prefer audio porn vs traditional porn?
  • How does audio erotica empower curvy women?
  • My personal story as BBW
  • Where to listen to the naughtiest and spiciest audio stories?

As a deeply satisfied customer of Best Kept Secret, I can attest to the healing that I’ve received from the genuine sound of male appreciation. I mean, imagine hearing a deep sultry voice saying, and I quote, ”If I were meant to die between these thighs, then that’s the way it was meant to f***ing be”. I don’t know about you, but I could hear that three times a day and twice more on Sunday. Evidently, other listeners agree. 

Woman with auralism listening to audio erotica

But wait, what exactly is auralism?

Auralism refers to a sexual attraction to sounds, encompassing a range of auditory experiences from music and voices to breath sounds, moans, and other specific noises. Those who resonate with auralism might find specific sounds particularly sensual or arousing, but one form of auralism, however, has seen a surge in popularity, especially among women: audio erotica.

Audio erotica is role-play audio content (think, like an audio-movie), narrated by a sexy deep voice. He dirty talks, whispers naughty things in your ear, and when he leans in for a light kiss on your neck, you can almost feel his warm breath on your skin. That’s the beauty of audio erotica: it’s so immersive, it almost feels real.

I won’t go into the details of audio erotica here, but if you want to learn more about it, check out these two articles on NSFW audios and why women are drawn to audio porn.

And just a quick side note, before diving into auralism head-first, I just wanted to mention that audio erotica is a term used interchangeably with NSFW audio, 18+ audio and NSFW ASMR. So if you catch me using any of these words, they essentially mean the same thing.

Image of a curvy and happy woman with auralism listening to audio erotica

Firstly, my curvy divas, How do you know if you have auralism?

Well, I just happen to have a naughty little checklist for you.

  • You find yourself strangely attracted to the sound of the three G’s: Grunts, Growls and Groans. That time when you realized that the sound of him stretching in bed next to you does more for you than seeing him shirtless.
  •  Deep whispers in your ear could possibly drive you to making terrible decisions tonight. When you intentionally end up in really loud places with him. Ha! Clever girl! Get all those whispers.
  • You find yourself drawn to narrated documentaries more than you would like to admit. There’s just something about a deep British voice talking about pandas that do it for you. I get you!
  • The sound of snoring, breathing, laughing and even yawning can cause a confusing arousal. When any unconscious sound coming from his beastly throat makes you want to start a family.
  • You fall in love at first…uhh sound. A lovely skill sharpened by the pandemic. Masked faces definitely forced us to hear what we couldn’t see.
  •  If you think that you have an audio kink, then you have an audio kink. Trust YOUR intuition..No one knows you, like you do.

Congrats! If you’ve just seen your reflection in that list above then audio erotica and BKS audios might just become the newest toy in your secret drawer.

Next, here are some surprising and empowering reasons curvy women are flocking to BKS audios, including myself.

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A Break from Relationship Anxiety

Curvy women are choosing audio porn over traditional porn because we’re getting a hot steaming pile of mental peace.

We don’t have to worry about much of anything really. We have the peace of mind knowing that we don’t have to suck our stomachs in, or put on shapewear of any kind to feel worthy of the ongoing intimate moment, in our headphones. We don’t have to worry about loose skin or sagging breasts because the voice on the other end addressing us, truly makes each woman believe that she is the sexiest woman alive.

It’s porn but, the right way. Why wouldn’t I want that? Honestly, who has the emotional time and space to keep worrying about date anxiety and appearance when there’s so much pleasure to be had in the now? We know what traditional porn is like. It’s the repeating image of the same old body type.

Image of a young beautiful woman with long blonde hair listening to audio erotica

Body-type Free Porn!

Many Best Kept Secret listeners have mentioned that one of the main reasons they prefer audio erotica over traditional porn is because they don’t see themselves in traditional porn. I mean can you blame them? Traditional porn simply isn’t body-inclusive enough for the 2023 woman. 

Think about it, since the beginning of porn, or the Big Bang, as I like to call it,  porn actresses have displayed a rather distorted message of what is considered sexy or even feminine. Slim and busty with long hair and no sign of children…like anywhere. Yes, that must be nice, but she looks nothing like me or my neighbor, or the everyday woman who constantly rocks curvy hips, luscious thighs, gorgeous stretch marks and delectable dimples!

BKS audio stories are body positive experiences that encourage self acceptance, build confidence and have the potential to heal wounds connected to low self esteem and even abandonment. Too good to be true? Well, I left a couple of  links for you naughty little naysayers to uhh.. research. No thanks necessary. It’s our little secret.

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BBWs are Women First

Yes, yes, I know there’s a place for BBWs in traditional porn, but even that has left me feeling displaced. I actually don’t want to be chosen because of my size. I want to be considered because I’m a beautiful, intelligent woman worthy of presence, real conversations and touch.

BBWs are women first, and women require intimate and intentional attention. We want to be seen for more than our anatomy. Well, we do love to show off the jiggle but to be honest, the BB part should be the last sexy thing on his mind.

Of course, I love dressing up in my best, showing off the power puff girls and my incredible curves on a date night. But what truly gets my attention is when I am complimented on my smile, wit and charm, instead of my big beautiful body.  I mean really, read her room guys!

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Auralism as comfort

This is a big one for me because of how much comfort I require on a daily basis. Like on lonely nights, when I’m having a shitty day or around that special time of the month, when my womb decides to kill itself, and my FUPA doubles in size. By the way, this list of comfort audios is great for when I feel like I need a good hug.

As a stage performer and voice artist myself, I understand how different it is for a traditional porn actor to portray genuine affection, and desire when twenty people are pushing cameras in your face, shelling out directions and waiting for the money shot. While audio porn actors can sit comfortably in their booths, and really connect to us. I totally believe BKS’s Mr. Robinson when he says, “I love you Princess.” Of course it’s all a story just like traditional porn, but hon, make me believe you! I believe Mr. Gallo and Mr. Chambers when they say they need my hugs to get through the day.

As a divorced, bad-ass single mom, I remember one of the darling little arguments between my ex and I was that I wanted too many hugs. He said, “We’re both too big to be all up underneath each other all of the time”. The saddest part of this story is that I started believing that wanting hugs from my husband was a bad thing and that If I lost a few pounds, he would like holding me more. Uggh, that’s so messed up it makes me hiss.

So…shortly, after celebrating my divorce,  I stumbled onto BKS and experienced the voices of Mr. Robinson, Mr. Chambers and Mr. Gallo among many others, asking for permission to hug me aaaand all of my insecurities. Me, the too big for hugs listener. Two audios in, is when it all hit me! My love for hugs wasn’t a bad thing at all, in fact, hugs are welcomed in relationships where love is kinda the point. After the first listen, I quickly became acquainted with my addiction to audio porn, and to the truth that hugs are awesome AF and I deserve them all!

Speaking of men who are emotionally mature enough to understand and support a woman’s menstrual hell, here are two stories that touch on more body positivity and period comfort!

And here is a big list of more audios that all of you plus size queens will love!

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BDSM Education

Now this one is my personal favorite and filthiest reason yet, I get to learn how to properly be bonded by ropes and attached to swings without worrying about destroying anyone’s high ceilings.

BKS audios are really exceptional at making the kinkiest of the thickies feel comfortable enough to even think about trying on straps that hang between beams and drywall. Thanks to Mr. Robinson’s coaching, I now know that blood vessels absolutely matter when hanging in mid air at a weight of over 150lbs. Seee?? I would have died. Now I can show up to any in-person bondage party, ask all of the right safety questions and, you know. Not die. So, for body positivity, comfort and education, BKS is definitely my go to for top BDSM audio erotica stories.

For more BKS erotic audio pampering, check out a few more fan favorites below.

A Personal Note

So what do you think friends, is audio porn really empowering curvy women? Well, I’ll answer that based on my own experience as a thick snicker. Hell Yes! 

Since fumbling unto the world of audio porn I’ve gained access to a space that consistently loves, allows and allures me in. I feel safe, I feel like the sexiest woman alive and the best part is I know the creators of each audio intended it to feel that way. Until next time my deviant divas, happy listening.

And if you’d love to check out more of these delicious creations, Best Kept Secret has over 400 naughty spicy audios, that you can start listening for free.

Comments

One response to “Auralism: Is ASMR Audio Porn Empowering Curvy Women?”

  1. Heather Bauer Avatar

    I feel so seen!!! I haven’t even heard of auralism. I just assumed I had a “voice kink,” but the auralism makes SO MUCH SENSE.

    From my whole heart, thank you so much ❤️

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