We are not as Unique as we Think we are<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

A staggering figure of 8 billion human beings are inhabiting this planet and I have always wondered: how many soulmates have we missed out on, simply because fate never brought them across our path?<\/strong> Or worse, we pass by but a quick glance is all it amounts to. How many different paths could our lives have taken only if we had met that one person?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It’s a cruel irony that in a world overflowing with people, we often find ourselves feeling more and more alone, longing for someone who can understand our quirks and passions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I wanted to share the stories of our listeners to the wider world, because I know for every listener who tells a story, there will be a thousand other women with similar experiences, who can relate.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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“…Suddenly we find we are no longer alone, we are no longer weird\u2026 it was just that we were different from the people in our little bubbles.”<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

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No matter how unique we think we are, there are thousands of people out there with the same crazy stories, the same weird interests and the same wild experiences. It\u2019s just that we never hear about them or we never meet them. But once we do\u2026 suddenly we find we are no longer alone, we are no longer weird\u2026 it was just that we were different from the people in our little bubbles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you would also like to share a story about yourself, no matter happy or full of challenges, or simply one of your beliefs and opinions, reach out to rob@bestkeptsecret.co.uk<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Disclaimer: The views expressed in this interview are solely those of the interviewee and do not necessarily reflect the opinions of the blog author or publisher. We believe in showcasing the diversity of our audience and recognize that there is no right or wrong way when it comes to relationships and sexuality. Our goal is to provide a platform for honest and open conversations about these topics and to promote respect and understanding for all perspectives.”<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Meet Beth<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Allow me to introduce Beth (name changed), a college student awaiting her Prince Charming.<\/strong> She was the first listener I spoke with for this series. As she shared her story, she confided that she has never been in a relationship and is still a virgin<\/strong>. With BKS audios providing a safe way to explore her sexuality. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When Beth is not studying as a full-time university student in the Bay Area of California, she enjoys eating vegan food, working out, sleeping, and watching thriller movies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Virgin by choice<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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Beth:<\/strong> \u201cMe being a virgin has to do with me not finding the right partner. The Scorpio in me just wants something that\u2019s real and is going to last.<\/strong> It seems that almost every guy I\u2019ve talked to isn\u2019t interested in actually getting to know me, they just want to get straight into bed. I enjoy having my virginity, but I would like to share it with a man one day soon.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Two  of my close girlfriends know I\u2019m a virgin and they\u2019re both supportive.  My guy friends who know my situation understand and respect my choice except for one.  He finds it hard to believe (his words)  because he thinks sex is one of the most important parts of a relationship.  I clearly don\u2019t, and it\u2019s led us into heated arguments.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ultimately, I have always enjoyed having my virginity, because it\u2019s the one thing no guy has ever been able to take from me after the connection ended.  <\/em><\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve never felt pressured into having sex, my patience is running a little thin on just having a genuine connection with a guy I\u2019m interested in. Ultimately, I have always enjoyed having my virginity, because it\u2019s the one thing no guy has ever been able to take from me after the connection ended.  <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u201c\u2026they just want to get straight into bed\u2026\u201d<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I think dating, just like anything else, has a positive and a negative side. I haven\u2019t been on a date in a long time, but one date I went on I had to pick up the guy at his place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So I get out of my car to go inside (big mistake) and from the minute he opened I knew it was going to be a mess. I go in, and he starts walking me around his apartment showing me his bedroom and bathroom as if we\u2019re about to stay there, and at this point I\u2019m just trying to go along with it by remaining calm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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When he wasn\u2019t looking, I hit the panic button on my keys so that my car alarm would go off.<\/strong> As soon as it went off, I acted all surprised and told him I would be right back after I checked my car. I ended up leaving, and soon after he called me and left a voicemail to say how angry he was but I never responded and I blocked him on everything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019ve also witnessed one of my friends break her ex\u2019s car windows, and I\u2019ve been on a literal stakeout trying to catch another friend\u2019s boyfriend cheating. It’s wild out there. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do we need a change? <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Based on my experiences and the conversations I\u2019ve had with others,  I believe social media, outsiders, and ego plays a big role in how men communicate with women (and vice versa).  Social media gives free access to talk to anyone especially when one isn\u2019t receiving what they want from another individual.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A possible solution could be being honest and upfront right away, and I know that can be challenging because in the beginning you never really know when to bring up certain things.  Personally, I\u2019d like to know as soon as possible if sex is the first thing you\u2019re looking for because that\u2019s an immediate no. <\/strong>  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I truly don\u2019t know what can bring relationships back into a more \u2018 getting to know you\u2019 lane.  At this point, I feel like you just have to be lucky enough to meet that person in the right place and at the right time who\u2019s looking for the same thing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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How does BKS come into the equation?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

I randomly came across BKS on YouTube when I was getting into ASMR, but one of the BKS videos came up and I was hooked lol. There\u2019s something about BKS audios that are more personable and bring comfort to me than a spicy book or porn.<\/strong> The audios I enjoy the most are \u201cDad\u2019s Best Friend\u201d or when Mr. Robinson is degrading at first but sweet afterwards hehe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The first time<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

BKS: You must have thought about what it would be like to lose your virginity?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

I would love to be somewhere exotic such as Jamaica or Hawaii, but as long as it\u2019s with the right man location won\u2019t really matter. Listening to BKS has changed my standards a little bit, more than anything it\u2019s made me want a soft dominant man; they\u2019re just dreamy and elite<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Anything you would like to say to your fellow virgin girls?<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Beth: \u201cMy advice to other ladies out there who are virgins is to keep doing what you\u2019re doing, don\u2019t feel bad or pressured to have sex<\/strong> if you\u2019re not ready to experience that now, and your prince charming is coming xoxo.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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