The new internet sensation you’ve never heard about: thousands of women are reclaiming their pleasure, being fed up with the hook-up culture and the low standards of traditional porn. These women are joining rapidly growing communities focused and embracing a new era of female sexuality, empowering themselves through immersive audio porn experiences and giving the traditional adult industry the middle finger.
‘Who are these weird guys moaning in microphone for fun?’ I thought to myself when I first heard an audio porn recording. And yet, here I am, two years later, having built a brand around it, loving my job, and having tens of thousands of supporting fans listening to our juicy creations across all parts of the world.
Audio porn is one of those things you hear for the first time and you are a whole host of emotions: Bemused, bewildered, baffled, all the b’s and kinda turned on. Hear it for the fifth time, and you start to get used to it. Hear it ten times, and you can’t get enough.
So what exactly is audio porn?
For those unfamiliar with audio porn, it’s essentially audio content that is meant to be sexually suggestive or arousing. It often features roleplay and conversation-style audio that immerses you in the moment and makes it feel like you’re actually interacting with your partner. It can be geared towards all genders, but has become widely popular amongst women in particular.
In this article I wanted to look at some of the points people, and more specifically women, listen to audio porn in the first place.
The TLDR version: why women love audio porn?
- Most mainstream porn sucks and audio porn is a better alternative (at least for women)
- Audio porn is an amazing way to explore what you like and dislike, especially if you haven’t had much sexual experience
- Unfortunately, many women have suffered negative sexual experiences and trauma. Audio can help to connect sex with positive feelings again
- Traditional adult content is curated mostly featuring a relatively small audience of white slim women. If you don’t fall into this category then finding content to relate with is rather difficult. Audio solves this.
- NSFW audios help dealing with loneliness. Because of the roleplay aspect of these audios, you immerse yourself in the story. You are ‘in the moment’ and it can genuinely feel like you are chatting with your partner.
- It’s just a fun way how to boost your libido and introduce excitement back into the bedroom life, if routine has snuck in. Not feeling it? Pop your headphones in while cooking dinner and you and your hubs will be in bed before the chicken is ready.
Now, before we dive into each of these points in more detail, I wanted to mention that I didn’t pull these points out of my backside. We asked ‘Why do you listen to NSFW audio?’ to over a thousand women who listen to BKS audios, and all of the points below are based on their answers, ordered by the popularity.
Audio porn is a better alternative to mainstream porn
If titles such as ‘Teen gives a sloppy BJ’ and ‘Bathroom F*k with my 18 year old step sister’ makes you gag, join the club! I don’t know who’s responsible for the scripts in these types of videos, but on behalf of all women, we would like to kindly request that they step down. Trust us, it’s for everyone’s benefit.
Jokes aside, mainstream adult content is geared towards men, with very little attention to the aspects of intimacy that women prioritise. Such as the chemistry and passion between actors, the storyline and a female partner’s pleasure or respect in general. And don’t even get me started on the Golden Raspberry Awards worthy acting skills. No wonder many women are grossed out and turn to audio porn instead.
Women’s needs are a priority
Audio porn is created for women, prioritising her needs and pleasure above everything else. A BKS listener commented “these audios make you feel like you’re valued respectfully as well as give you the lust, passion, pleasure and drive that you long for. These audios make you feel like more than just an object like regular porn does.”
The storylines are so much better
Audio based content is more story-based. It let’s you fully immerse yourself in the situation and get to know your boyfriend-of-the-audio before having him seduce you and deliver a leg-shaking O (or multiple Os). Every audio is like a mini – movie which is not only arousing but also entertaining and emotional. Playful teasing and foreplay, lots of dirty talk and extra dose of aftercare and cuddles are all essential parts of taking you on a very sensual and pleasurable journey.
Wider variety of storylines and categories
There is a greater variety of storylines and categories explored in audio porn than there are in traditional porn. Sweet lovemaking, Sub-Dom dynamics, established relationships, dirty talk, boyfriend moans, body positivity, fantasy scenarios, kinky BDSM, degradation, comforting scenarios, friends-to-lovers, a roommate’s brother…. you name it and there is a good chance we have it.
Daddy issues? We’ve got you! Have a listen to Black Dresses and Baby Girls.
Craving a sweet lovemaking session with lots of words of affirmation and appreciation?
Mr. Chambers is on the task with Baby…. I need you naked. Been feeling naughty and itching for a good spanking?
Mr. Robinson will join you for a spanking count-down. Just make sure to not lose count or you will need to start over.
And Mr. Gallo will guide your self punishment, as he sits back and enjoys the sight.
You can find over 300 different scenarios in this list.
Audio porn leaves place for imagination
Audio erotica is a living proof of the saying ‘a man falls in love through his eyes, a woman through her ears’. Audio porn might be the closest thing to real intimacy out there. With video, you’re just a spectator, but with audio, you’re right in the middle of the action. It’s so much more intense and sensual when you can imagine all the details… his body next to yours, his hands running down your thighs, his lips touching your delicate parts, his breath on your neck. It’s the closest thing you can get to the real deal.
Male moans in audio porn are just… yumm
Finally, if you are turned on by dirty talk and hearing your man enjoying himself, mainstream porn is seriously lacking in this area. A BKS listener commented “I discovered that I was turned on by the sound of the man having a good time and I hardly heard them [in mainstream porn]. The only thing you hear are woman who are often very hysterical and fake (which is a big turn off for me)”. If that’s also the case for you, Audio porn is loaded (pun intended) with male moans and dirty talk.
Explore what you like and dislike
Immersion makes exploration more effective
If you’re a woman who hasn’t had a lot of sexual experience, audio porn can be a great way to explore your intimate likes and dislikes. One of the things that makes the audio medium so special is the roleplay aspect. It allows you to tap into the power of your imagination and fully immerse yourself in a story. When you listen to an audio, you’re not just watching a scene unfold – you’re actually experiencing it first-hand. This immersion can make you feel real emotions and make it feel like you’re actually in the scenario, uncovering responses you wouldn’t expect from yourself.
One of the great things about audio porn is that it allows you to explore things you might be scared or ashamed to try in real life. It’s like a “free trial” of sorts – you can see how you react to different scenarios and find out what you like and don’t like. You might think you’d be into something, but when you actually experience it through an audio, you might find that it’s not really your cup of tea.
Find new kinks and limits
A BKS listener revealed: “I also found out I do not have a daddy kink, no matter how sexy you all make it sound.”
On the other hand, readers discover what they love: “I hate being tied up. It’s a fear of not being in control but honestly from listening to it, it really excited me that I had to give it a go and loved it. 😂”
Take a look at some of these comments from BKS listeners, revealing the kinks they found out they had through listening to audio porn:
“I discovered my praise kink – never thought I would like being called a good girl, but I love it.”
“The audio Watching you flirt with everyone in that bunny costume made me realize I have a slight exhibitionist side”
“I really got caught up with all the jealousy audios. The claiming and possessiveness, the anger and the praise after are just the perfect match for me”
This self-exploration can be really helpful when you eventually meet the right partner. You’ll have a better idea of what you like and what you don’t like, and you’ll be able to communicate your desires more easily. Which hopefully leads you to experiencing some truly enjoyable, steamy, next level intimate moments with them.
Overcome negative sexual experiences and trauma
Re-associate intimacy with positive feelings again
“… I sadly had an awful encounter that traumatized me to the point where I can’t have sex without freezing or not being able to talk without the trauma overwhelming me. I come here to help me overcome that fear because I know that it’s okay to not be okay.”
This is a comment from a BKS listener and, unfortunately, stories like this are not uncommon. Ranging from mildly unpleasant experiences, to relationship abuse, non-consensual encounters or severe childhood abuse. Many listeners have revealed they use audio porn to cope with these traumatic experiences and slowly learn to associate sex with positive feelings and help to feel comfortable in intimate relationships again:
“Past relationships have been too traumatic. Every time I try to start a relationship – collapses because of my mistrust. The feeling of emptiness still remains, which ASMR fills.”
“I had some traumatic experiences with sex before, and never was able to fully explore my kinks or pleasure. Audio porn lets me be in a totally relaxed state of mind and use my imagination to listen to a scenario. Now that I’m with my husband, I get to share the audios I really like with him, so he can understand what turns me on or off better 😊”
“Most guys these days only think about sex and rarely think about making the girl feel good, or are willing to get to know them as a person. That’s why I turn to fantasy erotic ASMR cause real life is so disappointing”.
Take things slow
One of the main advantages of audio porn is the strong emphasis on emotions. Most audios focus on themes such as affection, consent, relationships, love, care, foreplay, and aftercare, which can create a safe and supportive environment for exploring your desires and boundaries at your own pace.
Audio porn allows you to gradually re-enter intimacy without the pressure of interacting with real people. This can be particularly helpful if feel more comfortable taking things slowly and at your own pace. In real life, it can be difficult to find a partner who is patient and understanding enough to accommodate this, and there may be a risk of being pressured into something that is not yet comfortable or being triggered again.
With audio porn, there is no need to worry about this, as you can control the pace and content of your interactions. Additionally, we tend to include an extensive list of tags indicating the storylines and kinks that will be explored in each audio, so you can know in advance if a particular piece of content may contain something that could trigger you.
Audio porn is body type and stereotype-free
Traditional erotica often caters to a narrow audience of slim, white women. If you don’t fall into this category then finding content to relate with is rather difficult. Have you ever come across a video with your partner lovingly appreciating your curves instead of fetishizing you as a plus size woman? Remember that time you found a video with a promising title… just to find out the main character is triple your age or simply not your type? Making you click that X button quicker than he could demand you take your panties off?
This can make it difficult to fully immerse yourself in the fantasy. A BKS listener revealed traditional erotica books make her feel undesirable: “I don’t turn red from being shy or flustered and I found myself feeling more undesirable by the moment so I stopped reading them…”
Audio erotica, on the other hand, is not catered for a specific body type or skin colour. We make our best effort to exclude terms that could snap you out of the fantasy. Mentions of skin colour, blushing, straight hair, blue eyes or tight body being just a few examples on the ‘no-no’ list. So you can use your imagination to build the fantasy of your choosing. You can picture the man of your dreams, a fictional character, or even your own partner when they’re not around.
‘I am lonely’
Dark nights, deep longing to be held and cared for. Just wanting someone to tell you ‘Everything will be ok. I am here for you, always will’. A sense of loneliness and emptiness. If any of these feelings seem familiar, you are not alone. While an audio boyfriend can’t replace a real-life relationship, audio porn can be a pretty effective way to cope with any feelings of loneliness.
The roleplay and conversation-style audio in NSFW ASMR immerses you in the moment and can make it feel like you’re actually talking to your partner. Sometimes all you need to be able to relax and fall asleep is someone chatting to you about their day, the upcoming get-away or how much they appreciate having met you.
One user shared, “I have social anxiety so it’s really difficult for me to meet new people. This is the best way for me to still satisfy my sexual and intimate needs without having to go into a total meltdown.”
While audios can’t replace the warmth and intimacy of a real-life relationship, they can provide a sense of comfort and connection during times when we’re feeling particularly lonely.
The final notes
In conclusion, audio porn has been a game changer for many women. It provides an alternative to mainstream porn that prioritizes women’s needs and pleasure. From exploring one’s desires, to overcoming sexual trauma and loneliness, to spicing up a routine bedroom life. But now, if you’ll excuse me, I have some juicy audio content waiting for me to post it.
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